For in grief nothing "stays put." One keeps on emerging from a phase, but it always recurs. Round and round. Everything repeats. Am I going in circles, or dare I hope I am on a spiral? But if a spiral, am I going up or down it? How often -- will it be for always? -- how often will the vast emptiness astonish me like a complete novelty and make me say, "I never realized my loss till this moment"? The same leg is cut off time after time. . C.s. Lewis
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The concept of grief is like a robotic, mechanical device. It is like a machine that repeats the same operation over and over. This “machine” is likened to grief; it cannot be stopped, only slowed down or stopped completely. Grief will simply keep reappearing.

The heart will keep breaking. Everything that was lost will be continued to be lost again and again. In the above quote, the author is describing how grief can be unbearable and unbearable to those close to him. In every loss that the author has experienced, he has been unable to stop his grief from returning each time he experiences a new loss.

In fact, he describes how it feels as if his whole world is constantly revolving around him as his life continues on with no end in sight. He looks at everything as if for the first time because he does not know what else to do or say in order to bring any kind of comfort or delight back into his life.

Source: A Grief Observed

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